Jerry Howard

Jerry W Howard

September 12, 1950-May 20, 2025

Jerry Wayne Howard, of La Porte, Indiana- a man whose strength was matched only by his heart- passed away peacefully at home, just as he wished, surrounded by his wife, Doreen, and daughters Arica and Melissa.

Born on September 12, 1950, to Inez Jacobs Howard, Jerry was a man of grit, wit, and unwavering convictions. He lived a life defined by service, love and laughter. He proudly served his country in Vietnam 1967-1969, and carried his patriotism with quiet pride and unwavering loyalty. He didn't need to boast- his actions spoke for him.

In 1993, Jerry married the love of his life, Doreen Carlson, on September 11-that became a celebration of love, humor and shared stubbornness. For over 35 years, they built a life filled with home improvements, welcoming hearts for their grandchildren, teasing jokes, heartfelt moments, and the kind of love that only grows stronger with time.

Jerry is survived by his adoring wife Doreen, who stood by his side through every challenge and joy; who somehow never changed the locks on him. He leaves behind his daughters Melissa Ann Szydlek (and late son-in-law Nick Szydlek, Jr.), Arica Kathleen Howard, and stepdaughter Rebecca LaRue- whom he raised as his own since toddlerhood.

He leaves behind his siblings Betty, Dottie, and Ronnie, along with nieces and nephews he considered his own-Rhonda, Kelly, Brittany, Cindy, Jaime, Wendy, Tom, Charley, and Mark. He is also survived by many in-laws whom he loved dearly: Carleen (Charles), Laureen (Danny), Keith (Clorissa), Scott, Brian (Trina), and Tonia (Scott)-as well as all of their children, each of whom held a special place in his heart.

Jerry is preceded in death by his mother, Inez; his dear sisters, MaryAnn and Sharlene; his son-in-law, Nick-a man he was proud to call family; his mother-in-law, Kathleen; his sister-in-law, Laureen; Grammy and George and all others who went before him. We imagine they greeted him in heaven with a joyful, “Ready to party?”

He was a devoted grandfather-“PaPa”-to Leah Christine LaRue and Chance James Monroe Rogers, who will miss his playful requests for foot rubs (he paid $5 a foot), his warm hugs, gentle advice, and the quiet wisdom he always seemed to have on hand. He cherished them more than anything in the world.

Jerry loved his country, his family, music, old westerns, and catching up on the news. One of his favorite pastimes was sitting on the back porch and “firing one up,” a small comfort that helped ease his pain and tinkering in his garage.

Jerry’s heart was generous, even in the face of hurt. He believed in grace, in second chances, and in choosing love over resentment. Even when met with disappointment or pain, he carried himself with quiet dignity. He held on to hope, believed in the goodness of people, and always left space for forgiveness-even when it wasn’t always returned. He never closed his heart.

He will be missed more than words can express, but his love will live on in the hearts of all who were lucky enough to know him. Never forgotten, always loved, and fondly remembered-especially every time the oldies play on the radio.

Arrangements are being entrusted to Haverstock Funeral Home and Cremation Services, 602 Maple Ave., La Porte, IN where the family will receive friends Wednesday, May 28 from 5 pm until 7 pm. Funeral service will be held on Thursday, 12 noon with Chaplain Missy Buche officiating. Interment will follow at the Pine Lake Cemetery.

Online condolences may be made at www.haverstockfuneralhome.com.